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Wednesday, November 5

Hidup Jangan Jadi Mangsa

cakap-cakap shahied

 


Have you guys ever seen the movie BULI by afdlin shauki? It tells a story about a man who is very low on confidence and therefore always being bullied by this other guy.

Now, almost all of us would have heard of friends being bullied in school, or been bullied themselves and who knows, have bullied others as well. 
To me, bullying exist in almost every level of society.. be it from bdk2 tadika(yes children can be cruel towards each other), school, at work etc.
At school we have a bunch of no-good naughty boys(or girls) who exerts physical or mental bullying upon the group that is seen weak.
At work we have a boss or a supervisor who likes to show his authority by bullying his workers or co-workers in doing chores or tedious jobs for them.

I was in a boarding school so bulllying was so rampant in those days.. sometimes you dread walking in front of their blocks just because u are afraid of being called up to wash somebody's clothes, fetch something from dewan makan, or even giving the a back massage. and if you fight back, you know whats coming to you..
I personally haven't really had the pleasure of being bullied.not really. when i entered boarding school, i was a 2nd intake and missed the BIG minggu orientasi. so no need to go around asking seniors for signs, no need to spin doing a helicopter or tiup mentol sampai padam to get their stupid signatures.
I also had the luck of having a good looking sister in form 3, so i was well looked after.heheh.

The closest i came in contact with bullying was when one night when we were walking back to dewan makan from prep malam and i was walking while kicking some stones that were on the jalan tar. Tup tup, when i arrived at my dorm room after changing and all that i was told that a senior wants to see me in his room. My heart started pounding.what did i do? so i went to his room and it was all dark and he was waiting for me. me stood me in the middle of the dorm and started to ask me in his stupid girly whiny voice  if i knew what have i done. i said i didn't know. he started to kick me in the calf(mind you he was almost smaller than me so i didn't feel a thing) he asked again and i said i didnt know. so he told me that earlier when i was kicking the stones one of them hit him in the leg. so i said, "teruk ke bang kene?" he didnt answer and the punched my stomach. at that time i was so pissed and felt like wanting to smack his face right there and then coz i know i can. but, it was in his 'territory' so i just had to bear. luckily, a warden was doing his night rounds that night and some of his friends came to warn him so that was my lucky escape. so end of story

Whats interesting to know is:
- what makes these bullies tick? is it the satisfaction of seeing other people bow to their audacious attempts to look powerful, or is it to enhance their own self esteem by picking on the weak.
- are WOMAN or GIRLS as a powerfull bully as a MAN? we always hear about guys bullying guys or girls at school or at work. but can a woman bully as good as a man or better can a woman bully a man?
- have anyone of you guys been bullied? OR bullied someone?(ni sure takde nk ngaku)
-and if you have been bullied, what makes u succumb to the pressure of being bulliied into?
- how many of you have the balls to stand up to your bullies? (yes ameen, girls pun ade balls jugak in the form of their ovaries-same embryological origin.hehe)

Hands up any of you who have been bullied? physically? mentally? Yang tukang buli tu sure2 la tade nk angkat tangan ye tak?

Peace out

13 kritikus:

Yusma Yusof said...

taktau la kire buli ke tak, tapi kalau sekolah rendah dulu, if budak lelaki ejek je, aku x bagi masuk class, if diorang nk masuk kene kejar. tapi diorang la salah, sapa suruh ejek, dah tau Yusma garang.

begitulah garangnya saya dahulu.
:)
sekarang dah baik dah.
sikitla :P

maestronine said...

huhu soalan2 towards the end macam data intepretation lak.. looking for causes eh.. management.. complications.. buli is a disease..

shahied said...

hahaha... tu kirenye ko BULI BALIK..
nanti aku buat post BULI BALIK plak la camtu..hahaha

miss anon said...

hahah...dolu2 masa skolah rendah ade satu budak 'nakal' suke pukul2 budak pompuan.kira hape haku!!!tumbuk balik lah...ok its ganazzz,i know.

pompuan pembuli tak penah jumpe lagi.paling teruk kena sound setiap kali lalu depan dorm mereka time nak ke surau..tapi tak penah layan..well protected time tu.

thats all kot kalau pengalaman sendiri.tak menarik..

tapi ade je kawan2 kena panggil g dorm senior masa kat asrama dulu.sorang2 kena serang ngan ramai.biasanya dengan sebab yang ntah hape2 (eg: org yang diorang minat suke budak tuh...erkkk,crazy!!)

-saye ade je ovary,tp lebih suke jd anon ;)-

amilahoney said...

hm, xtau rr psl buli. tp psl buli blk 2, byk kot (an eye for an eye...). tp ak ade gk kes kna buli dgn warden, 2 rr rsnyer experience plg truk so far.

alhmdl. p sbp baru, so kes buli a.k.a. ragging among girls jrg ade. if ade pn yg extreme cases je. xtau rr among boys, no comment..

hm, i am the bully? never heard any1 complaing abt it, so i dun think so. but, xtau rr if mntk msak nasi lemak if considered bully... ;)

ps: uaa, mane pat kt labor ward ni? nk perform delivery. cmon ppl, make some balls! hahahaaa :D

Witty Angel said...

aku suke buli!!hahaha..:P
lalaala...
kat zainab lah dulu2..
kat ytbesut dh ok sket tapi kadang2 de gak la part membuli..hehhe..:P
matrik ngan banting xleh buli dh..hahaha

izadiskandar said...

Ombak jahat.

n Z r A said...

haha topik begitu dekat di hati.

sbp n bully.

i went thru the hassle of getting the prefect's signature during the first week of orientation. berdiri kat bilik operasi pengawas sejam lebih, sang the negaraku song dgn penuh berwawasan pastu end up dapat b/p (bagi pihak) je. lepastu at the end of the orientation week..ada satuuuu je signature prefect laki yg tak dapat. itu pun dier suka lari2 dari ktorang. sanggup petang2 balik dari rugby ikut jalan bukit bukau. kesimpulannya kakak dan abg ini kalau saya jumpe lagi saye nak jentik mereka sekuat hati. eh tapi best jugak pengalaman amik signature sbnanye esp dgn prefect boys (aura gatal dikesan sedikit)

"assalamualaikum,bang bleh mintak signature"

"apa..kumbang? mane..mane kumbang?"


haha..priceless sungguh smua itu..


as for life as a bullier - hurm takde la best mana. stakat ktorang tahan diorang ramai2 dalam surau dari kul 2 sampai 5 bebel2 je. perempuan kan...takkan nak suruh buat motorbike ke tiup mentol sampai padam ke...takla sekejam mana..

reminisce..reminisce

k a m i l HK said...

shahied suka buli aku kat padang. *sob sob.

ameen@South Infirmary said...

haha aku lupe la plak pompuan ade balls

hoi ape ni buli2? aku paling teruk kene buli -> amik makanan dari dewan selera. hahah.

2nd teruk... - izad buli aku kt umah. izad ni nampak je baik tapi suke buli.

say NO to buli. Yes we can. Yes we did....not

ilman aiman said...

coming from a very humble background... i have to admit that i never encounter a first hand bullying experience. but maybe, that's because i get along fairly well with my peers... or maybe because of something else.. =D

shahied said...

kamil..nak wat cane.. i cannot help it lah..haha.dgn gaya lompatan ko yg hebat tu.

shahied said...

ala aiman.. kalau dorg ur peers mmg la tak kene bully kan..kalo ade pun playful je.. tapi kan, maybe ko tak kene buli sbb ko sgt baik hati n dorg tak sampai hati nk buli ;)